In the depths of grief, the pain we feel is not just emotional; it permeates our very being, echoing in our hearts, bones, and blood.

It's a tangible ache that seems to have no end.

But amidst the darkness, there is a tool that can help alleviate some of the weight we carry: energy work.

Having experienced profound losses myself, I understand the heaviness that grief brings.

When my stepfather, who was every bit a father to me, passed away, and then later when my Dad departed, I was thrust into a world of deep sorrow.

It was during this journey that I discovered the profound impact of energetic cords on an even deeper level.

Energetic cords are the ties that bind us to the people, experiences, memories, and places in our lives.

They are the unseen threads that connect us to those we love, even after they have transitioned from this earthly plane.

It was through this understanding that I began to comprehend the physical pain in my heart after my father's passing.

Guided by the...

Having recently danced several of my own dances with grief, I want to keep finding ways to support my community through their own dance with grief.

(If you like a little ambiance:
Oil I was called to: Valor Oil - Young Living 
Incense: Nag Champa
Music I was listening to as I wrote this blog: https://youtu.be/JuIUJNnf9GU?si=l5ATLbr6MfJjpUvG ). 

Today I feel called to share a few thoughts about grief. 

The thing about grief is that it never really goes away...

Life is forever changed. In the moment of loss, we are catapulted into an entirely new world, new frequency, and what feels like a new dimension. 

We somehow have to find a way to understand and learn this new life. This new version of self. 

The other thing about grief is that no one really knows the true severity and intensity of your pain... 

They can imagine, they can empathize, and they can commiserate.

But just like you won't fully know the pain they might...

I knew I was going to pull this card. What I didn’t know was it was going to turn into a long blog post.

With so many people around me losing loved ones so often lately, naturally I’ve had a lot of spirit around as well.  

If I know you, there is a very good chance your loved one has popped in for me at least once. But often more. If I don’t know you, but you are drawn to this space, there is also a good chance your loved one’s spirit helped to bring you here. Maybe it’s simply to read this blog today and you will find healing in any of these words. Maybe it’s to connect and work one on one together. Whatever it is- it’s usually divinely orchestrated. 

I don’t reach out to you and tell you this, because that goes against my integrity and training as a medium.

I don’t know about all of your belief systems. I may not know what stage you are at in your grief. And I may not know how this type of information can...

 What can I say about grief? 

There are no words that can adequately quantify what grief really is. And there is no one  that can fully explain it to us, as we all have our own experiences with grief. 

The grief I want to talk about today is the grief we must endure when a loved one passes away. 

I’ve been watching grief flood in all around us these past few years, including into my own heart.

I hold space as I watch it fill the crevices and dark empty places of our hearts, our minds, our energy fields, and then it takes over all the light places too.  

Grief is so heavy and wraps so tightly around our hearts, our lungs, our stomachs, our throats, our shoulders, and our souls. 

 And the hardest part about grief is you can’t do much to cure it other than sit with it, and slowly learn to navigate what life is without our loved one. 

Story Time...I cried today.
Over the weekend my boyfriend and I were driving...